Being invited to a wedding as a guest is a true honor—it’s a chance to celebrate love stories in real life. However, there are certain etiquette guidelines to follow to ensure we are respectful to the couple while also looking and feeling our best. Below are some essential tips on what to wear—and what to avoid—when attending a wedding.
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Start with the Dress Code
If a dress code is provided, it will usually be noted on the invitation. This should be your first guide in planning your outfit. If no specific instructions are given, a great way to begin is by using social media apps like Pinterest to search for inspiration and create mood boards. When in doubt, always opt for an elevated look unless otherwise specified by the couple.
Colors to Avoid
It is generally considered improper to wear white to a wedding since it’s traditionally the bride’s color—some even see it as an attempt to upstage her. Similarly, red is sometimes viewed as bad luck for the couple, so it’s best to avoid it unless the wedding theme explicitly includes it. Additionally, try not to wear the wedding party’s colors if you are not part of it.
That said, there are exceptions. If the bride requests that guests wear white or if the wedding has an all-white theme, then it’s perfectly acceptable. Otherwise, some excellent color choices for wedding attire include black, navy, blue, pink, yellow, and green.
General Dress Etiquette
Regardless of the dress code, there are a few general rules to keep in mind:
- Avoid overly revealing outfits.
- Do not wear baseball caps, ripped jeans (or jeans of any kind), sneakers, or sunglasses unless necessary for an outdoor setting.
- Always be prepared for the weather—consider bringing a second outfit as a backup. A stylish sweater, shawl, or coat is also a great option for staying warm.
Outfit Ideas for Weddings
- Mini, Midi, and Maxi Dresses: Dresses in satin, silk, pleated textures, or fitted silhouettes paired with heels can create an elegant wedding look.
- Off-the-Shoulder Dresses: Bodycon fits, ruched sides, and one-shoulder necklines in shades like sunny yellow pair beautifully with statement earrings, an embellished clutch, and metallic gold heels.
- High Crew-Neck Open-Back Maxi Dresses: A romantic floral print with the right undergarments, complemented by colorful accessories such as a statement clutch or floral magnolia earrings, is a stylish option.
- Deep V-Neck Pleated Maxi Dresses: A royal blue pleated maxi with a smocked back looks stunning with silver heels, stacked bracelets, a printed crossbody bag, and delicate layered necklaces in gold and silver.
- Monochrome Suiting: Satin, silk, or polyester suits paired with a camisole or a printed blouse can create a chic and polished look.
By following these guidelines, you can ensure you dress appropriately while celebrating the couple’s special day in style.
Author: Afi Like Taffy is an influencer and stylist.
