As children grow up and become more independent, their safety becomes a top priority. Whether they’re going to a concert with friends or planning to travel, it’s essential to equip them with the knowledge and tools to stay safe to prevent them from harm’s way. I instill this not only with my own children but also through my mentorship as the founder of the local nonprofit Phillips Law Foundation.

Through the foundation, we advocate for safety and hope, especially for those who are disadvantaged. By working with the Arizona Missing Child Taskforce, we aid families and loved ones by spreading awareness through billboards, flyers, social media and other outlets to find missing children.

But we shouldn’t wait for a child to go missing. Before your kid goes out without you, prepare them with these four key tips to keep them safe when an adult is not present.

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Setting Boundaries

For the safety of your child or children, you need to set rules with them and make sure they understand the dangers that can happen when they’re on their own. As the guardian, establish where your child is going and who they plan to be with. You’re not overstepping on your child’s independence but instead being transparent with them and teaching them how to communicate when you’re not present. A simple “text me when you get there” goes a long way to help keep communication open and consistent. Setting a curfew for your child or children can also ensure their well-being and that they’re coming home at a reasonable hour.

Try and get the phone numbers of their friends’ just in case yours is not answering right away and you want to check in. You should also have the parents’ information to make sure that you all are on the same page about where your kids are going and for how long.

Emergency Contacts

Make sure your kids have essential phone numbers saved in their phones, including yours, a relative’s and local emergency services. If your child is younger, explain what kind of situations require them to dial 911, like if someone is hurt or if they’re in danger. For older children, not only ensure that they know how to call to help, but also how to describe their location clearly in case they ever need to call for help. This includes knowing street signs or any significant landmarks that can help you or emergency officials reach them.

Technology Is Your Friend

Location-sharing apps like Life360, Find My or Google Family Link can provide peace of mind for both you and your child. These tools let you know where your child is without needing constant texts or calls. Just like any safety measure, using these apps is about finding a balance between trust and protection between you and your child.

Don’t Ignore Instincts

Teach your child to listen to their intuition: if something feels off, they should leave or act immediately. This shows your child that if they feel uncomfortable at any point during their outing, they don’t need to stay in that situation. Listening to any hunches to either call or find a trusting adult or leave the area they’re in can be the right thing to do. Instill confidence in them to address the situation promptly to guarantee their safety.

Safety isn’t about instilling fear; it’s about building courage, preparing your child to make smart decisions and equipping them with the right tools necessary so they know how to handle any situation.

In an unpredictable world, these small habits can make a powerful difference in your child’s well-being and can help them feel secure and supported, even when you’re not by their side.

Author: Olga Phillips is the founder of the 501(c)(3) nonprofit Phillips Laws Foundation. She launched the nonprofit foundation in 2022 to empower those in need through compassion, action and justice. With a dedicated team of law professionals, clients and supporters, PLF provides safety and hope for those who are disadvantaged. The work is centered on supporting children and foster children, empowering women, fighting homelessness and ensuring that every individual has the opportunity to succeed. For more information, visit https://phillipslawfoundation.org/.